Couples Counseling
IT CAN BE FIXED!
Helping High-Conflict Couples Find their Calm
Relationships can be challenging, and every couple faces disagreements. However, some couples find themselves arguing constantly. High-conflict couples often yell, insult each other, and dredge up past issues, creating a tense atmosphere. Beneath the surface, though, they may feel drained, guilty, and ashamed. Eventually, even couples caught in this cycle must find a way to stop the fighting.
If this resonates with you, you’re in the right place.
How to know when you need Couples Therapy
You need couples therapy if:
You can’t stop fighting or arguing
Whether it’s about money, sex, or chores, you and your partner can’t seem to agree on anything. And, it’s tearing your relationship apart. If you find yourself thinking, “I can’t do this anymore,” it’s time to ask for help.
You can’t stop thinking about the past
Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, and when trust is challenged or lost, moving forward is hard. If you’re having difficulty with trust and commitment because of past hurts and betrayals, couples counseling can help you repair and rebuild the trust and commitment in your marriage.
You feel like you and your partner are drifting apart
Once upon a time, you felt closer to your partner than almost anyone else in your world. Now, you’re not sure if you even know each other anymore. If you want to rekindle your connection, couples counseling can help.
How Couples Counseling Can Improve Your Relationship
Couples counseling can provide the support you need to help you find your way towards a better relationship. Even if you’re feeling lost now, I can help guide you in making lasting, positive changes in your marriage. Couples counseling can teach you how to:
Fight Fair
Compromise on difficult issues
Reconnect and repair after a fight
Solve problems as a team
Rebuild trust and commitment
Couples counseling helps struggling couples repair and rebuild their relationships through learning, problem-solving, and insight. Couples counseling is more than just “talking it out” or rehashing old fights. It’s about learning new skills, improving communication, and rebuilding friendships.
Discernment Counseling
When your relationship feels like it’s at a crossroads, it can be hard to know what comes next. You may be wondering if there’s still a path forward together — or if it’s time to part ways.
Discernment counseling offers a structured space to navigate this uncertainty with care and clarity. We help you and your partner explore what’s brought you to this point, what each of you truly wants, and whether your relationship can be rebuilt.
This process isn’t about rushing to decisions or placing blame. It’s about understanding your next steps — whether that means finding a way to reconnect or thoughtfully preparing to move forward separately.
When you’re ready to face these difficult conversations, we’re here to guide you with compassion and respect for both of your needs.
Allow Me Help!
I know it’s hard, but it’s not hopeless. Let’s talk about how I might be able to help.